When I Fall In Love

"When I fall in love, it will be forever, or I'll never fall in love"


Relationships. can't live with it, can't live without it... or so my freinds tell me. i am 16 n very much single. i dont had a 'girlfriends'. scandle byk la..hahha , not that i couldn't but bcoz i choose not to. OK, some of you may have concluded taht im just a plain sore loser when it comes to relationships. and no, im definitely not a gay.. sial sape ckp cmtu..


It really irritates me when some of my friends who have just started going 'steady' try to set me up and get me going out wuth some people, just bcoz they've got themselves involved. "What about her? She looks kind of cute... well, at least she LOOKS cute with you anyway..." Thanks, but no thanks.


Relationships aren't just about who looks good or whether she looks good with you. unfortunately appearance seems to be the first thing one look for in 'prospect'. fine, but as the saying goes, 'Beauty is only skin deep'. How true that is!! I've gone out with some really good-looking people (no, i'm not a flirt; it was more of a group outing) but they didn't seem too nice on the inside...character, that is. Sure, i may look so perfect with this person, but that is not what matters. What matters is whether that person has the inner beauty of kindness, thoughtfulness, understanding, etc, that outshine all outward beauty.


Too many young people these days take a relationship very lightly. They treat it like a fashion statement. If you dont have a 'steady', you're not cool. for most of you that would be a reality bcoz of the pressure from peers. I know some people who treat their partners like they're wardrobes. They keep 'changing' them from time to time, similar to that of Spring Wear or Summer Collection. Ugh!! Disgusting!


These are the kind of people I'm afraid of. They just toy with you and manipulate you to the maximum. The saddest part is some actually BECOME their slaves, thinking that the opposite sex actually loves them. Talk about love being blind!


I'm square you say?? Then try digesting this. When things dont work out at the end of the day, its YOU who are going to be hurt and rejected. Not me. Not the one who played you out but YOU!! So, is that really cool after all??


To be continued...